A: Solo play isn't only okay, it's a must! While the time you spend playing with your baby is central to her development (and for many parents, among the day's highlights), her ability to play independently — even for a few minutes at a time — is also important. I
t builds self-reliance and confidence, skills that will be valuable to your baby throughout her life. "Playing alone" doesn't mean setting your baby on the floor and leaving the room, however. Get your baby started on her own by providing a few toys and initiating the activity. Once she's engaged, move out of her view. (Make sure she's in a child-safe area to begin with, such as a play yard or a childproofed living room.) Resist stepping in to retrieve toys that roll away or to show your baby how each one works.
Let her try to figure it out on her own. Return to her side when she seems frustrated or upset. As your baby grows older and gets better at interacting with a variety of playthings, you'll be able to leave her alone, under supervision, for longer periods of time. Not only is this good for her development, but it's helpful for you, too, as you'll gain precious extra minutes for yourself.
t builds self-reliance and confidence, skills that will be valuable to your baby throughout her life. "Playing alone" doesn't mean setting your baby on the floor and leaving the room, however. Get your baby started on her own by providing a few toys and initiating the activity. Once she's engaged, move out of her view. (Make sure she's in a child-safe area to begin with, such as a play yard or a childproofed living room.) Resist stepping in to retrieve toys that roll away or to show your baby how each one works.
Let her try to figure it out on her own. Return to her side when she seems frustrated or upset. As your baby grows older and gets better at interacting with a variety of playthings, you'll be able to leave her alone, under supervision, for longer periods of time. Not only is this good for her development, but it's helpful for you, too, as you'll gain precious extra minutes for yourself.
